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We have many other great blog posts for anyone to read, check out the Sitemap where you will find something for your taste. This blog post Sex Hotels is only for adults, parents who are lacking “Their time” and for those that are traveling {Australia/the world} without any way of having alone time together.
Last night David and I went out for dinner, and yep we had a great time. Adult time – enjoying our meal in peace and quiet. With no-one asking for our attention. And I got to enjoy two cocktails plus my all time favorite drink. We went to Hogs Breath Cafe, then to Coffee Club for Dessert, and then onto a Hotel/Pub for more drinks.
It was so very nice to have “our time” out.
Both David and I love our kids, but we are lacking in “Our Time” at the moment and we feel like we needed to escape.
With one son at his Friends house over night we made a last minute decision to go out for dinner. Our other Son looked after our younger two boys, and they were feed before we left. They had two new DVD’s to watch, our bed to take over and we knew they were safe.
No Privacy.
Which got us talking…..if there is one thing we don’t like about Living in our Motorhome is “No Bedroom Door”. No walls separating our bedroom space from our boys.
Our boys who go to sleep late at night.
Our boys who are light sleepers.
Our boys who do not need to hear their parents while they are in bed!!!
YEP – like I said this is an Adult Post only.
Along the way to dinner David and I got onto the Subject of Sex Hotels. Not sleazy Sex Hotels, not places where you go to pay for sex {mind you there is nothing wrong with those places for those that are single}
We are talking about Sex Hotels where you can check into and pay per Hour.
Or Maybe they should be called “Love Hotels” instead of Sex Hotels
Places set up with different “Style” rooms to cater for different type of tastes.
Now you wouldn’t need a Hotel with over 100 rooms ~ you would only need about 20-30 rooms because its not for travelling purposes….its a place where adults can go to and be together without having to be worried about their kids walking/waking up on them!
Picture This.
Imagine ~ A place with a room set up with sound proof walls
Imagine – A Place set up with a room where you can book in for an hour or two hours
Imagine – A place set up with a Big Spa Bath, a Bed and nothing more!!!
Imagine – A place where each room had a different Colour scheme – different “Theme” and you asked to book into that room.
Imagine – Sex Hotels set up in every major city around Australia…..
Could You Use Such A Hotel?
We even started to come up with Names for the Chains of Hotels….
Yep! We thought the whole thing through.
Mind you David had more details then I thought of, and his ideas were a bit “Too Much” for my tastes. His Room DΓ©cor ideas were way too freaky for me!!! {amazing that after all these of years being marriaged I still find out things about him that shocks me!!!}
These Fantasy Love Hotels are really out there π
But I really like the idea of a place where we could book in a for a few hours.
Spend some quality time together – giving our marriage the attention it needs.
Without having to pay for an over night stay. Without having to stress about our boys needing us, going for a few hours is something we can manage – an over night hotel stay is a bit too much to ask of our older boys!
Without having to be quiet in the bedroom if we don’t want to.
With a room that has a bath tub – I miss my bath! David would probably like a room with an Full Sized Kitchen/Oven….he misses baking meals {mind you I am not sure that cooking would be on our minds?}
It would be a classy Joint. Somewhere Parents/Grandparents/Couples can escape to….knowing they are doing something good as a couple.
After all the kids will grow up one day and move out of home, and what happens then to the Parents who never mind time to connect together? One day the kids will be all gone, and if the marriage bedroom life is not taken care of then you are screwed!!!
Sex Hotels or Love Hotels
Yes or No?
Could you see Australia embracing them?
Would Love To Hear Your Thoughts….
Cheers
Lisa
New Life on the Road.
I love it. Yes I would use hotels like this. In fact Husband and I have previously discussed it! Like you, our children our too young to stay out overnight, but we still have a need and a desire for privacy. So are you going to start them up? x Sarah @ creatingcontentment.com
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Thanks Sarah, once I find someone to back the idea I will let you know and you can book as much time as you and hubby need π
Sounds good. You wouldn’t even have to set up a brand new hotel. Existing hotel chains would only have to dedicate a certain number of their rooms to be hired out maybe be in two hour blocks.
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Now that is a brilliant idea π
Great Idea. They do have them in some parts of the world, but they are not that desirable. Your idea of a room that has atmospheric lighting/decorations would be excellent.
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Thanks Jan – and yeah it needs to be a classy hotel, not something trashy!!! Have seen a few photos from hotels overseas and they do not look nice π
I think this would be a great idea anywhere. It’s so hard to find a sitter over night, let alone a few hours sometimes. I so would pay for this!
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Funny how many people {parents} agree that finding time together is too hard!!! And its so good to hear that others would so use a “Love Shack” π
This would be the perfect answer to many couples whether travelling around Australia or who have little kids that like to intrude the bedroom.
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That is very true π
When we were living in St Kilda, Melbourne, we received a flyer one day in our letterbox inviting couples to use the facilities of a nearby brothel on quiet nights (eg Monday night) at a special price for the ‘room only’. I must admit I thought it was slightly weird and kinky at the time, but we didn’t have kids then, so I didn’t really think about the parent ‘target market’.
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Yep I so would take up that offer down in St Kilda, makes so much sense for us parents to have some much needed time together π
Would you book a few hours for some privacy time now that you have kids? {just curious how parents work around kids and “Adult time” π }
Scout meetings are at night, cinema, or send them off bowling without you. The older ones are given the responsibility of the younger. It could be empowering for them too. Astronomy night in tents!
oh I love that idea π
Fantastic Idea. So why hasn’t someone done it? We all soooo need quality time.
Exactly! Still think that we so need this to happen in Australia – we are still lacking “us adult Time” π